Putting Love in Everything You Do

In continuing to have a positive attitude, one must learn how to put love in everything you do. This means learning to love something, even though you may not truly love the steps that it takes to get there. An example of this is someone wanting to become an actor or actress. This is something the person really loves and practices his or her acting each day. Although he or she loves doing this, the same love may not be exuded when it comes to attending auditions or performing in front of others. This is when the person needs to sit back, relax, and learn to put love into everything. This means learning to smile, learning to enjoy the experiences, and learning to be a happier you for the betterment of you.

Are you ready to put love in everything you do?

Loving Yourself

Do you love who you are right now? Sometimes, people spend an enormous amount of time wishing they were someone else. When they become rich and famous, they change the way they were created due to their own insecurities or peer pressure. Peer pressure can be detrimental to one's health, especially as an adolescent growing up in society during this time and age. I say, release the chains that bind you from loving yourself. To be able to love others, you must first conquer loving yourself. This can be the hardest of all when you have never been taught how to love yourself. One suggestion I can give about loving yourself is by sometimes taking care of your needs first. In order to help others, you have to be in the best health as possible. Taking care of your health and yourself first, allows you to give your all to others. Much love to all of my sistah girls all over the world. All nationalities, races, and creeds.

Putting Aside Our Differences

In life, sometimes we have to put aside our differences and come together to work in a collaborative effort to achieve our goals and objectives. Putting aside our differences means to discontinue treating each other in a rude manner, refraining from giving each other the side eye, and stopping the childish whispering games of talking about others. We our not hurting the person we are taking about, but only ourselves. We are hurting our ability to grow beyond the point which we currently reside. I for one, do not want to be at a standstill in which my growth toward self-actualization is halted. Let me self-actualize with like incumbents who welcome the strength and power to do so.

~ Come self-actualize with me    

Staying Positive Through It All

Through it all, no matter what, we have to stay positive. Sometimes we allow others to dictate the way we feel about certain things and then we react on how we feel about those things. We allow their words to get the best of us and reveal something in us that has the ability of impacting our lives. Often times when we speak and there is miscommunication in what is being said. Sometimes it may be due to the listener waiting to respond and not waiting with the intent to listen. With knowing this information, we still have to stay calm and positive. Sometimes we have to use these moments as teachable moments. Talk to the listener and tell them how you feel. See if he or she can listen to everything you have stated first before responding.

Uplifting One Another

I ask you today, how have you challenged yourself to uplift another woman? Will you smile at her hoping to get the same smile in return? Will you put down your pride and tell her she looks nice, even if you don't know her? I charge you all with the responsibility of uplifting your sistah girl by practicing soft and social skills.

~Put down those emotionally hurtful words and start developing your emotional intelligence

Make a Conscious Effort To Be Nice

Sometimes in life, we as women fail to be nice to each. We look each other up and down or whisper things discrediting the woman we just met. We definitely have to do better. Today and this day forward, I ask you to make a conscious effort to be nice to the women you meet.